The Delusional Life, Bold Enough To Dream Bigger

The Backstory

It started with a simple thread.

“I want Black women to be as delusional as J.Lo. Stop overthinking and just go for it.”

That thread reached over 30,000 views and nearly 3,000 interactions because it shifted the conversation about what it truly means to live your dreams. Too often, Black women are told to hold back, to be practical, and to make themselves smaller so others feel comfortable.

But what if your power comes from imagining more? What if being “delusional” is actually the key to living fully aligned, fulfilled, and free?

The Delusional Life is that reminder. What started as a single conversation has grown into a movement, one that reconnects us to our brilliance and reminds us that dreaming big is how we change everything.

Monica Wisdom

Step Into Possibility

The Delusional Life is about daring to imagine more. It is a reminder that shrinking your dreams has never protected you, but expanding them can transform everything.
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Believe

Believe in visions that feel bigger than your circumstances

Fearless

Refuse to let doubt or fear set the limits of your future

Choose

Choose joy, abundance, and possibility, even when the world tells you to settle

Create

Build a life that feels larger than anything you were taught to expect

Dream Loud, Niece

Stop whispering your vision like it is a secret. Say it, write it, plan it, and own it. The bigger the dream, the more magnetic it becomes.

Plan Like a Queen

Goals are not wishes. They are maps. Plot your next moves, track your progress, and turn intention into action without overthinking.

Show Up for You, Daily

Nobody else can do this for you. You have to show up, believe in yourself, and keep going even when doubt shows up uninvited.

Auntea's Notes

Delulu’s Notes

Dear Niece, every dream that changed the world started as someone’s delusion. If they could be bold, so can you.

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Who It’s For

This space is for women who:

Have ever questioned if they were asking for too much
Who This Is For

This space is for women who:

  • Have ever questioned if they were asking for too much

  • Know they are capable of more, but doubt whispers louder than belief

  • Are ready to rewrite what success, ease, and joy look like in their own lives

  • Want tools, stories, and a community that believes bigger right alongside them

Why It Matters

Why It Matters

Nothing changes if you keep waiting for permission.
The world benefits when Black women are free, abundant, and unapologetic in their vision.
You deserve to live a life that feels as extraordinary as you are.

The Delusional Life is a call to stop settling and start imagining on a scale that matches your brilliance.

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